Sometimes you know you are tired, but sleep does not seem to explain it. These prompts are for the kind of exhaustion that feels emotional, mental or difficult to name.
Updated September 2026 · 8 minute read
You do not need to arrive at the page with a diagnosis for what you are feeling. Journalling can be useful precisely because it gives you somewhere to notice what has been building before you know how to describe it.
Emotional exhaustion can sometimes look like irritability, numbness, indecision, resentment, wanting to withdraw, struggling to concentrate or feeling strangely disconnected from things you normally care about. The aim of these prompts is not to force an answer. It is to help you become more specific.
Start with what your exhaustion feels like
- If my exhaustion had a texture, weight or temperature, what would it feel like?
- Where do I notice tiredness most strongly in my body?
- What part of the day feels hardest at the moment?
- What am I doing lately that seems to cost me more energy than it used to?
- What am I avoiding because I do not feel I have the capacity for it?
- When did I first notice that I was running low?
- What do I keep telling myself I “should” still be able to handle?
Look at what you may be carrying
Not all tiredness comes from doing too much. Sometimes it comes from monitoring, anticipating, suppressing, pleasing, worrying or carrying responsibilities that have no obvious finishing point.
- What am I mentally keeping track of for other people?
- Whose emotions am I currently making space for?
- What conversation am I repeatedly having in my head?
- What am I pretending does not bother me?
- Where am I saying yes while internally wanting to say no?
- What responsibility have I accepted without deciding whether it should actually be mine?
- What am I afraid would happen if I stopped holding everything together?
Explore what you are not receiving
- What do I need more of that I have not been receiving lately?
- When do I feel most supported?
- What kind of rest am I actually craving?
- What would make this week feel 10% lighter?
- What am I waiting for somebody else to notice?
- Where in my life do I feel unseen, unappreciated or taken for granted?
- What would I ask for if I believed my needs were reasonable?
Ask what your exhaustion may be trying to change
- What can no longer continue exactly as it is?
- What boundary would create the most immediate relief?
- What am I ready to stop proving?
- If I did less, what would I choose to protect first?
- What could I postpone, simplify, delegate or release?
- What would it look like to take my exhaustion seriously before it becomes a crisis?
You do not have to answer every prompt
Choose the question that creates a reaction in you. That might be curiosity, discomfort, relief or even irritation. Often the useful question is the one that makes you want to move past it quickly.
You can write for five minutes, one page or until the thought feels complete. There is no advantage in turning reflective writing into another task you have to perform perfectly.
When the tiredness feels hidden
If these prompts make you recognise that your exhaustion may be about more than sleep or workload, this is a natural place to explore the idea of hidden exhaustion more deeply. A relevant Oya Omore resource can be introduced here later when the correct product page is ready.
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